Wednesday, June 01, 2011

Know Your Home Fengshui

Seluruh ajaran fengshui adalah berdasarkan prinsip: "menempatkan obyek di tempat yang tempat untuk harmoni dan keseimbangan diri Anda, alami, dan mengglobal". Berikut pandangan fengshui rumah secara umum:


* Fengshui klasik untuk lokasi rumah adalah: harus memiliki bukit yang tinggi di belakang rumah, dua bukit kecil di depan, dan pandangan yang luas. Lebih baik lagi jika ada air di depan.

* Anda harus berjalan naik di tempat Anda daripada turun.

* Pintu depan dan belakang rumah atau kantor tidak boleh sejajar agar chi yang memberikan keuntungan pada Anda dan keluarga tidak langsung keluar.

* Bangunan tidak boleh berlokasi pada posisi tusuk sate atau di ujung dua jalan yang saling berhubungan membentuk huruf T atau di tengah pertemuan tiga jalan yang membentuk huruf Y.

* Pondasi gedung hendaknya harus berbentuk kotak atau bujur sangkar yang menggambarkan keseimbangan. Hindari garis-garis aneh atau tak beraturan.

* Jika ada elemen air seperti sungai atau danau di rumah Anda, pastikan alirannya lambat dan berlokasi di depan sebagai simbol kekayaan akan datang menghampiri Anda. Jika berada di belakang artinya kekayaan akan mengalir menjauhi kita.

* Area depan dan samping pintu masuk utama dari rumah atau kantor Anda harus tak terhalang agar aliran chi dapat masuk.

* Tempat tidur utama harus berlokasi di belakang garis pusat horisontal rumah untuk kekuatan, dukungan, dan proteksi.

* Seluruh pintu dan jendela-jendela harus terbuka bebas meskipun Anda menggunakannya atau tidak.

* Hindari properti dekat menara pembangkit, transformer, gereja, sekolah, kantor pemerintah dan gedung institusi lain, rumah sakit, kuburan, dan kamar mayat.

* Hindari membuat kamar mandi atau toilet dekat atau di dalam pintu masuk utama yang terlihat seketika ketika Anda masuk rumah. Juga jangan membangun kamar mandi di lantai dua yang langsung di atas pintu masuk utama. Posisi seperti ini bisa mengakibatkan kesialan atau malapetaka pesar.

* Bentuk bangunan dengan desain arsitektur bagus sesuai ekologi, topografi, dan konservasi dengan lalu lintas udara bersih dan sirkulasi udara yang bagus.

Feng Shui Tips Knowing Your House Number

The concept of numbers or numbers are the thing that counts in fengsui. Many believe, the figure implies a lot of things so that the term good numbers and bad numbers. Fengsui number 4 for example, are often poorly defined due to a misunderstanding of a particular cultural interpretation.

In connection with your home, every detail is important in analyzing fengsui, including house number. Even so, whether it is wise to say, there is fengsui good, or bad fengsui in house number? Then, how do you respond fengsui with the fact that your house number is considered to have fengsui bad?

Well, it's good if you look at this issue with a broader perspective.

When you connect more deeply with the energy of your home, you'll begin to understand how fengsui from the bedroom, for example, affect your health, or fengsui at the main entrance to strengthen the overall energy of your home.

In addition it is important to notice detail while improving fengsui home, it is also important means to calm and wise when addressing the concept of a false fengsui fengsui like the house number. So, if you believe that house numbers be a source of misfortune, of course it's not a smart attitude.

The best way to understand the pure energy of the figures are looking into numerology or the ancient science of numbers. Once you browse some good sources of numerology, you'll begin to see similarities between them and energy to understand more about specific numbers, or a combination of numbers. You will also understand that each culture has interpretations rather different to the meaning of the figures.

Energy from the figures, as well as other energy in life, always coming to help understand your progress. Once you feel the meaning of the numbers 0 through 9, you can then add your house number to find single-digit numbers and their meanings.

Do not interpret the meaning of the figures directly. For example, if your house number is 313, that if add up (3 + 1 + 3) means 7, and one of the tendency of the number 7 is the silence / solitude, do not interpret that will remain alone forever.

Try to respond wisely. Words can only express a limited basis. You should feel the energy behind those words.

This is a very basic sense of energy figures:

0 - emptiness, nothingness, the potential
1 - energy flow without obstruction, the beginning-a new beginning
2 - balance, choice, cooperation
3 - creativity, family, self declaration
4 - stability, grounding, security
5 - change, power stands logic, adventure
6 - calm, patience
7 - contemplation, self-evaluation, loneliness
8 - infinity, abundance, success in business
9 - the highest number, fulfillment, achievement.

In fengsui, energy figures tend to be interpreted incorrectly, such as the traditional interpretation of figures based on how the sound of the numbers in Chinese. For example, the number 4 is considered unlucky because it sounds like "death". If that figure 4 does not sound like "death" in your language, why you should worry have a house with that number?

Of course, this is the basic concept of house numbers in feng shui. One expert fengsui can read more specific energy patterns from a combination of the numbers of your home, but even this is not simply a matter of good or bad fengsui. This is all just about energy, and you certainly know when you can create good energy when you take a decision.

Friday, July 24, 2009

Your Love Life with Clutter Affects

Clutter in the Relationship Area

The feng shui "ba gua" is a map of the energetic influences of a space. Some people use the ba gua according to the compass directions; with this method, the Relationship Area is the southwest sector of your home or of a specific room. Western feng shui orients the ba gua to the entry to a space; with this method, the Relationship area is the back right corner of the home or of a room. Instead of wondering which method to use, why not check out them both? Look around the SW sector of your home, and in the SW part of your bedroom. Now check the room(s) in the right-rear corner of the house, and look at the far right corner of your bedroom. Like a wet blanket thrown over a fire, clutter in any of these areas can smother the passion and intensity in your romance. You aren't much fun to be around when you feel depressed, indecisive, ineffective, creatively blocked, overly emotional, or too lethargic to care - which is how you are likely to feel about your love life if your Relationship areas are filled with clutter! Find these areas within your home and bedroom, and make them your top priority for clutter-clearing attention.

Clutter in the Bedroom
Your bedroom is strongly associated with the intimacy of a romantic relationship. Clutter in the bedroom can contribute to fatigue, irritability, lack of focus, and difficulty sleeping. When you and your partner are tired, cranky, and distracted much of the time, your relationship is probably not getting the quality attention it needs and deserves. If you are single, a cluttered bedroom will make it more difficult for a new relationship to get started; all that stuck energy literally makes it hard for you to meet someone new. And that's before a potential partner gets a good look at the mess you are living in! Decluttering your bedroom is an excellent way to shake all that stuck energy loose and make room for a new relationship.

Clutter Around the Front Door
The third major factor is the area around your front door. The main entrance is called "the Mouth of Chi" in feng shui, because it has the strongest influence on how chi (energy) flows into your home. You can't nourish your body without opening your mouth to eat. Similarly, your home can't benefit from fresh, vital chi if the front door is blocked with clutter or rarely used. Go take a look at your front door. Does it open all the way, or have you stored things behind it? Is your foyer or front hall clean and welcoming, or is it filled with stuff you haven't gotten around to putting away or getting rid of? When was the last time you used your front door?

The front door is associated with opportunities. If you've been trying to meet someone new without success, getting rid of clutter around the front door and using that entry more often are a good way to shift that stuck energy. You may find that opportunities to connect with someone new come to your attention more often, and that you are more likely to take advantage of them instead of feeling so tired you'd rather stay home. If you are in a relationship, a cluttered front entry can contribute to feelings of boredom and being stuck in a rut with each other. Opening the front door more widely and frequently is a good way to breathe new life into a less-than-exciting romantic connection.

When you have cleared the clutter from important areas of your home, you should see a shift for the better in your love life. For those who are single and looking for love, making space in your home literally creates space for a new relationship to come in. That new partner may manifest for you right away, or it may take time for the energy shifts to result in a new connection. Either way, the space you create by getting rid of clutter will help to lift your spirits, improve your mood, and increase your energy -- which will make you more enjoyable and attractive to everyone you meet, old friends and new.

If you are in a partnership that has not been going well, clutter-clearing alone is unlikely to solve all of your relationship problems. However, by clearing out key spaces you create mental and emotional space for greater clarity about the issues and behavior patterns that contribute to difficulties in your marriage or partnership. With greater clarity comes a greater capacity for wise decisions and appropriate action. You may even find that releasing clutter results in releasing a foundering relationship as well. Accept that it's all for the best, and focus on the new space you have created - in your heart as well as in your home - for a new and better love to come along.

Thursday, July 02, 2009

How Much Is Enough?

Deciding whether or not we truly need something can be one of our greatest clutter-clearing challenges. When it comes to making those important keep-or-toss decisions, "need" can be discouragingly difficult to define.

Be realistic about how soon you can reasonably expect to use or use up what you've got. Having a little extra on hand is not a bad thing, especially if you live where bad weather might make getting out to do errands difficult or even dangerous for a few days from time to time. There's a huge difference, however, between having a few days' worth of bottled water, paper goods, and canned food on hand should a major storm strike, and filling the garage with enough cases of stuff to survive a nuclear winter.

Don't get me wrong; I'm a huge fan of warehouse stores, and love the great deals I get at Costco. Do weigh the cost savings against your available storage space; if bringing home all those bargains is cramping your lifestyle in other ways, the money you're save may not be worth it. Put a value on your quality of life, and pay attention to what effect your bulk buying habit is having on it.

Re-using something is the purest form of recycling, but holding on to things just because they might come in handy "someday" is a direct route to clutterdom. Sure, all those old mayonnaise jars and margarine tubs are handy for storing leftovers, organizing crafts supplies, and probably a thousand and one other household uses. That doesn't mean you need to keep 1,001 of them in your pantry. Chances are pretty good that the ones that you'll find useful are already in use, so the empty ones can be recycled. There will always be more.

It can be very enlightening to actually do an inventory of your suspected worst forms of "just in case" clutter. Pick one type of excess: canned goods, or potentially useful items like margarine tubs, grocery bags, or rubber bands, or whatever it is that you keep sticking a few more of in the drawer or cupboard because they're potentially useful. Go take a good hard look at what you've got. Get a piece of paper and a pencil and count them all and then write it down. You'll probably be surprised at how much is in there. You think you've got four or five days of food in the cupboard (a reasonable supply), but when you count up all those boxes and cans, you realize you and your hubby could live on that stuff for weeks without letting a fresh fruit or vegetable past your lips. "Let's see," you think, "I've probably got five or six grocery bags under the kitchen sink," only to count them up and discover that there are 25 of them lurking down there.

The question to ask yourself is, "Do I have a use for this now?," not "Might I possibly find a use for this someday?"

Preparedness is not the only reason we keep too much stuff. Life is short, and most of us have a lengthy list of things we'd love to do if we ever have the time, which we probably won't -- at least not for more than a small number of items on that list. Are you really ever going to use that set of miniature tart pans to bake individual quiches for a garden party, or do you just like thinking that maybe someday you'll have the time and inclination to play Martha Stewart for a day? And if you haven't used your waffle iron in so long you've forgotten how it works, perhaps you don't really need it.

It's okay to have a few things around that support your "someday when I have the time" list. The key is to realize that your interests and priorities are probably going to shift between the time you put something on that mental list and the day finally comes that you might actually be able to do it. How much of your "someday" stuff is related to hobbies that you have outgrown or simply lost interest in pursuing? Sure, those first few quilts you made were a blast, but maybe now you find yourself thinking, "been there, done that," and realize that if you ever have time to be creative again you'd rather take a painting class. Box up your collection of fabric and give it to a friend, or see if a local women's shelter would like to have it.

Stuff that's no longer new but not entirely worn out can be very tempting to a clutterbug. But how many old T-shirts do you really need to keep for washing the car? Keep two or three and dump the rest.

Don't be shy about asking, "Do I really need to keep this?" about larger things as well; we decided to sell one of our cars after we took a serious look at how often we used it and how much it would cost to inspect, register, and insure it.

Clutter's Side Effects:

How the State of Your Home Affects Your Life
by Stephanie Roberts

Each area of your home has a symbolic meaning with which you resonate on a subconscious level. Clutter and untidiness within each of these areas causes constriction and inertia in the corresponding aspects of your life.

CLUTTER IN THE KITCHEN
The kitchen has been called the "heart of the home," and with good reason. Here we are nourished and provided for, even if we are dining on a frozen entrée zapped in the microwave rather than a homemade meal lovingly presented by Mom. An untidy and disorganized kitchen makes it hard to nourish yourself and others, on both physical and metaphysical levels. How you care for your kitchen is a clue about whether you are giving proper attention to your own nourishment and sources of abundance. Cleaning up and de-cluttering your kitchen opens up space for you to receive the support and comfort that you need in life.

LIVING AND DINING ROOM CLUTTER
These are spaces where you mingle with and honor your relationships with family and friends. Here you engage with the world while being at home through watching television, reading the paper, or arguing politics with old friends over dinner. Clutter can turn these social spaces into dens of isolation, especially if the mess is so bad that it has been years since you've invited people over. Look around your living and dining rooms to see what they say about your relationship with the rest of the world. Are you hiding your true self from others, burying it in clutter, or putting it on display here?

CLUTTERED HALLWAYS
Hallways are the arteries and highways of your home. Think of clutter in your hallways as a traffic jam that prevents important connections between different areas of your home and your life. Look at your hallways to see how you feel about your life's path: are they well lit and easily navigable, or do they trip you up? If you feel a disconnect between work and family, self and others, what you need and your obligations, it may be time to give your hallways a good clearing out.

BATHROOM CLUTTER
Bathing and anointing the body is a preparatory ritual for many religious rites both ancient and contemporary. On a daily basis we use this space to prepare ourselves to meet the world. Clutter in the bathroom can indicate a devaluation of self-worth, a lack of attention to self that goes beyond the physical. A clean, well-decorated bathroom can become a tranquil sanctuary for rejuvenation and self-care. Scented soaps, attractive accessories, and fragrant candles have a place here. Beautifying your bathroom by eliminating clutter and disorder and transforming it into a place of refuge will bring a sense of the sacred into your morning and evening personal-care rituals.

CLUTTER IN THE BEDROOM
Adults' bedrooms are for sleeping and intimacy, and they should function as places of renewal for self and relationships. Clutter in the bedroom is enervating without being restful. If you feel "wired and tired," creating order out of chaos in this most personal space can help you relax and let go of the stress of the day. Then you can get a good night's sleep or enjoy some special time with your partner.

CLUTTERED CLOSETS
Closets represent things that are hidden, unknown, or unrecognized. When we fill our closets with clutter, we stifle our ability to be intuitive and insightful. Cluttered closets can indicate problems that you may not be consciously aware of but which impede your progress through life, work, and relationships nonetheless. Keeping the closet door closed is not an effective solution.

ATTIC AND BASEMENT CLUTTER
A cluttered attic creates a feeling of being under pressure. It's hard to feel optimistic about the future when there's so much stuff "hanging over your head." Ancestor issues reside up there, along with all those boxes and chests holding the detritus of generations. And the basement and other below-ground storage areas are considered abodes of the subconscious, so watch your step and get that clutter cleaned up!

CLUTTER IN YOUR GARAGE
Think of your car as a symbol of your mobility, independence, and ability to be self-directed in life. If there's so much stuff piled up in your garage that you can barely fit the car in there, you may be hampered or overly cautious moving forward in life as well.

Stop thinking of clutter-clearing as a tremendous chore, and start thinking of it as one of the most effective self-improvement tactics available to you. Every magazine and piece of paper you recycle, every book you give to the library, every knick-knack and item of clothing you release to a new owner creates space in your life for new insight, energy, joy, and experiences to come in!